Apparently, we are not quite ready to settle in to the country life of retirement; the life of mowing 5 acres of grass and then watching it grow again. Moreover, what we find ourselves embracing in this chapter of life is that we don’t have to play by the rules. It’s called redefining retirement for a reason, and that’s what we’re doing, again. We’re redefining our path of retirement.
Life is What Happens
Sometimes, life has a way of defining our path and sometimes, life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans. You know, like planning your retirement. We have the prettiest piece of land and we love our little brick house. But it isn’t quite the fit we were looking for in the sense of long term.
Our neighbor, with whom we share a property line, had been interested in our property at the same time we bought it. Subsequently, we told him we were giving thought to listing our house/property if he was still interested. As life – fate – would have it, a few days later we had ourselves a contract of sale. No agents, no brokers, no muss, no fuss. As a result, here we are just a few weeks out from closing escrow and closing the book on this experiment in country living retirement. Also known as redefining retirement.
Lessons Learned
Anytime you can learn from an experience, it’s a win-win. We now know more than we ever thought possible about living on property with a well, and what that means if the power were to go out. No power, no pump, no water. We learned about septic tanks and drain fields. We learned about having a big propane tank to fuel our gas stove, we learned about wildlife that roamed the property after dark and what can sometimes occur by said mischievous (and hungry) wildlife.
I learned the song of cicadas can drive me to the brink of insanity. But maybe the most fun of all was fostering 3 (siblings) barn cats and taming them to live out their life on a nearby horse farm. It’s been a grand adventure and there are no regrets whatsoever. It’s just time to turn the page in this chapter of life.
Gearing Up
So, we’re gearing up to make yet another move. I think this makes 4 moves in 6 years and our 8th purchased/remodeled home! We’ve been cleaning closets and selling a few pieces of furniture that we’ve acquired since moving east in an attempt to whittle our worldly goods down to the bare minimum. Family heirlooms and treasured keepsakes will live in our son and daughter-in-law’s attic. The rest, along with our car, will go into storage. Come mid May we’ll hand our house keys to our neighbors/friends and say good-bye to our experiment in country living retirement.
Bound for Portugal
Next up, we’ll be house sitting in nearby Virginia for a few weeks. While there we’ll take care of appointments, doctor visits, etc., and map out a few more details in the grand scheme of things.
If all the pieces fall in to place, the way we hope they will, by mid June we’ll be on a plane bound for Lisbon, Portugal. Why Portugal? Well, that’s a story for another day. Suffice it to say we fell in love with Portugal in 2015 and it’s calling us back. It’s the starting point. The starting point of us redefining retirement, again.
That’s great, enjoy this new adventure and change.
Thank you, Nathalie!
I can empathise with your feeling of a lesson learned. Many years ago my husband and I moved to a small island in the middle of the Pacific. With a permanent population of less than 2,000 people and no port it was isolated in a way which almost redefined the word. For a few months we loved it. It was a great adventure but the shine didn’t last and after a year we were very, very glad to leave.
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Oh gosh, Lyn. I don’t think I could take on moving to such an isolated location. We lived on Oahu for 1 year and I had island fever! We don’t know unless we try though, right?!
So very true. If we learn from our experiences; we win! I will stay tuned to your site to see what adventures you two discover!
Thank you so much, Marilyn!
Congratulations Patti and Abi! You must be looking forward to some overseas adventures. We’ll never forget the day when we rented out the condo, put everything in storage, and left Canada for Europe with all our belongings in a couple of backpacks. Very exciting and liberating!
You guys must be counting the days.
Frank (bbqboy)
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Thanks so much, Frank. We are looking forward to the next chapter but before we can get excited we need to move and close escrow. Then maybe our brains can switch to travel mode! 🙂
I love that the two of you are on the same page. What fun you are having. Wonderful!! So great that you can share these adventures with the rest of us.
Thank you, Sandy, we really appreciate the kind words of support and encouragement.
Good luck with your next adventure. Here’s to redefining retirement as many times as we want!
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Exactly! And have fun being snowbirds!
We did just that, too. Gave up our RV cruising days for life at a 55+ Resort + 2 months of timeshare. We spend a month in Portugal next year! See you! This is what we are meant to do: reinventing retirement again and again.
Yes, completely agree, Carol. Keep on redefining and reinventing as you go embracing all that comes your way. Two months at a resort sounds really great!
Lucky you! I’ve always loved Portugal. Lisbon is a great city, the food, history and people are all wonderful. I think it’s a great trade-off. Country life redefined! How exciting!
Thank you, Ursula. We’re very much looking forward to an extended time in Portugal and being able to explore more of the country as well as crossing borders throughout Europe.
Having just sold our house with a realtor, I’m green with envy! Congrats to you, both on the house sale and this new beginning!
Totally understand, Irene, it’s SO much easier if it can be done with a handshake and a workable contract between parties. Thanks for the well wishes!
Wishing I was going with you. We want lots of pictures and adventures to read about.
I’ll do my best to share the journey!
I think you will run into a lot of ex-pats there! Another blog I follow, No Particular Place to Go, they are US and also moved to Lisbon. Anyways, should be a great move and lots of new places to explore!
Wow, good for you guys! As you know we are in Portugal now through May 6th. Love this country! We are staying at a villa in Alburfeira. It’s beautiful here.
We plan to visit Morocco and Gibraltar and Seville, then it’s off to Spain for ten days or so.
Wish we were going to be in the Country at the same time. Seems that we just miss one another.
Travel safe out there and know we have also redefined retirement…for us. Life really is what YOU make it.
Love, Julie
We definitely seem to be passing ships, don’t we?! You and Dick have definitely defined your path and I’m constantly impressed by what you both take on!
That’s great, Tammy, Anita and Dick of No Particular Place to Go, are penpals, we’ll be connecting in Lagos! Thanks so much for stopping by!
How fun. Congratulations! A new adventure. Have you been practicing your Portuguese?
Thank you Paige! I don’t speak Portuguese but I am 1/2 Portuguese. 🙂 I will definitely be carrying my phone with Google translator! Although, when we were in Porto in 2015, we didn’t have any issues at all. Such friendly and helpful people.
Patti such great news! You and Abi certainly do keep things interesting and good on you for making another adventure come true. Portugal is a beautiful country, great choice
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Thanks Gilda! Completely agree about Portugal and we’re looking forward to exploring the country and beyond!
Its not re-tirement – its pro-tirement – moving forward to the next chapter!
There’s another whole lifetime to be lived, sadly overlooked by way too many – Not the likes of you and me LOL
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Agreed, Linda, there is no dust under your feet or mine! Hopefully, others will give thought to using this chapter of life to break out of their comfort zones!
Congratulations – I’m looking forward to reading about your next chapter!
Thank you, Will! And, we’re looking forward to following your river stories!
Here’s to more adventures while you’re figuring out what your retirement plan is going to be – haha! And it’s not like you have to decide anytime soon. A few zigs … a few zags… and lots of great stories and memories! Congratulations and on to another road!
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Looking forward to connecting in real time, Anita! Let’s take on a few zigs and a few zags together, shall we?
Good for you. I love how you two follow your dreams and make them happen. How would you know if you liked country living unless you tried it.
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Thank you so much, Gaelyn! And, I love the path of semi-retirement you’ve carved for yourself, you definitely found the best of both worlds!
Wow! I didn’t see this coming after following along as yiu did all that work when you bought the place you just sold. I’m impressed. Best wishes for the next chapter!
Thanks, Suzanne. This wasn’t the game plan when we bought the house, but as they say one never knows where life will lead us.